Part One
Losing a loved one is one of the saddest things that can happen to a human being. When the loss is sudden, we feel like the end of our world, or it was already announced and we did not take advantage of the time we had left, because we chose to do other things, we put our own desires, plans or priorities before being by their side, or because circumstances did not allow you to be there, in the end one is left with a feeling of deep sadness or with a guilty conscience, as the case may be.
When you lose the pillar of your house or home, you hope that he or she has taken the precaution of leaving everything in order, with the assets distributed through a will or instructions written by his or her own hand.
By leaving everything organized so that we do not inherit problems due to not making provisions, we will leave more serene and at peace. By leaving our economic and financial affairs in order before leaving, in the midst of sadness, we also leave peace of mind to face the future, with uncertainty, but with hope.
I have a friend called Beatriz, whose father passed away a few months ago, and she told me with nostalgia the following: “When a person dies… we are left with the satisfaction of having said goodbye. Moments of life with that person go away. Those smiles that never end, that emotional support, that presence… leaving behind unforgettable memories, their essence, their teachings.”
He also mentioned that “it is sad when people do not leave a will because there are people who want to take advantage of the situation, so it is advisable to leave it in writing… leave titles and documents with someone you trust…”
So that our loved ones are not distracted from those beautiful memories and these are replaced by problems of all kinds, let us put in order all the matters that could cause them to have a bad time and worries that we can avoid for them.
Don't miss the next edition, in which we will give recommendations on what we can do to avoid unwanted situations in addition to the feelings of grief that overwhelm them due to the loss of their loved one.
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